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Value 5 Things Before 5

2011-05-17T09:28:00.003+01:00

" Value FIVE things before FIVE:

      Your YOUTH before your OLD AGE
      Your HEALTH before your SICKNESS
      Your WEALTH before your POVERTY
      Your LEISURE before your OCCUPATION
      Your LIFE before your DEATH "

"the previous saying translated from the prophet of Islam Mohammad peace and blessing be upon him "

As you know , Allah (our GOD) has ordered you and me to enjoy what is right and forbid what is wrong.

My Brothers & Sisters , No one can go back and start a new beginning unless you regret for any past action, but anyone can start from now for future investment and to add value for your-self and prepare for The Last Day where no excuse will be accepted and to be safe from the fire .

FAISAL ALMULLA

ALKABTIN@GMAIL.COM

www.MyTrueWay.com

WHERE ARE WE GOING ?

2011-05-07T21:34:00.001+01:00

I have seen some interviews in TV where people do not know where they are going in this life. They did not really understand the purpose of life and when the interviewer asked them a simple question he got the following answers :

- to have fun
- to enjoy life as long as i can
- to work to eat to have rest
- to build a family

- i don't know

- to be happy
- to follow my dream
- to travel and discover the world
- to finish the university and become a lawyer.

I will reply to them >> So What !!

Is it really our purpose ?? why we born ?? why we exist ?? why we were created ?? where are we going ?

If we ask any one why do we eat , then all of us will have the same answers that is for nutrition to sustain life. If we ask why we work , then every one will say it is necessity in order to support our families and provide the needs. If we ask and ask many common questions such as why we sleep , why we learn, why we dress, why we wash ?? ...etc , then you will find similar answers from any one in any languages from any place in the world.

So why, when we ask what is the goal or purpose of our life we get so many different answers. !!

This is because people have not really thought about it and have confused.

"do they think that they were created without any purpose." translation quoted from Holy Qur'an

Be-careful, The life is short. The people who are not aware of life they should start from now to have the right answer and we are free of change toward the true way.

FAISAL ALMULLA

ALKABTIN@GMAIL.COM

www.MyTrueWay.com

Shaking Hands !!

2011-04-28T22:32:00.002+01:00

Shaking Hands !!

Men Shaking Hands with none relative woman & girls either Muslims or none Muslims, could be young or old. First, we mean by None-relative women are those women that you can marry one of them...

Shaking hands happening a lot but for me i have prepared the answer to avoid this particularly in my office at work with female visitors or outside anywhere.

One day, Christian woman from USA with full makeup visited my office and i tried to give hear a feeling that i don't want to extend and shake my hands when she enter and when she leave the office. Suddenly, i refused to shake her hand when she started first and she felt insulted.

During the business meeting, i felt that i put her in critical condition in front of her manager. But for the next month, she visited me again and she has learned the lesson that i will say word "salam" instead of shaking hands.

Next time, i will explain the rule (why it is not permissible to shake hands). The true way is to make the shaking rule known to the female visitors in advance.

MUHAMMAD (peace be upon him) the prophet of ISLAM, never shook hands with women or girls which are not allow full for him.

You will find some modern men say "it all depends on your intentions" and I have heard someone replied to those with the same methodology, he said "i have a good intention but I'm not going to pray and i don't think i need it now”!! Also he said "i have a good intention but I want to shake her hands and do socializing to get the business deal. It is a prior for me”!!

This is one of the ways the devil makes and sees fair for us to wrongly use it.

Someone may ask >> is there any age limit to shake hand of a girl who is small ?

The True Way says: it has nothing to do with the age. In some countries, you may find a girl with 12 or 13 years old and she still look like a kid and behaves like a kid and she has not reached the age of puberty and she did not get her menses yet and she look like a child. In this case, it’s ok to shake hands if there is a necessity and to look at here because she is not a place of desire of men. On other community, you may find a girl of 7 years old but she is in a state that men look at here and may desire her. So in this case it becomes forbidden for you to look at her or to shake hands with her, unless there is a necessity.

We don't shake women hands because we respect the woman.

We don't shake women hands because i don't like it from the strangers men to my relative woman (such as my sisters, mothers, uncles, daughter, wives, daughter of my brothers or sisters .. and etc. )

We don't shake women hands to avoid bad intentions from men side.

We don't shake women hands because this is Muslim’s society and Islamic instructions and it is a culture

We don't shake women hands because we are jealous for our families.

Follow the true way to safe our clean communities and not innovate.

FAISAL ALMULLA

ALKABTIN@GMAIL.COM

www.MyTrueWay.com

Baskin-Robbins Girls. From the source http://www.abdullahalsaleh.com/

2011-04-23T23:03:00.005+01:00

This was real story occurred to my friend Mr.Abdulla Alsaleh in UK-Bradford

Written by Mr. Abdulla :

" Once I was in a café with my university colleagues, and we started a typical conversation on relationships. The girls were blaming the guys for every problem, as they always expect men to cause problems. I got a bit angry on behalf of my gender, and then I decided that controlling the anger and engaging in a debate would be much better.

I said, “Listen, darlings: if you went to Baskin-Robbins to buy ice cream, you can have a few free tastes, and then you have to buy one or go away. Do you agree?” They smiled, recognizing that there was a trap in the story. I continued, saying, “It is a perfect example for guys; they get the free tastes from chatting with you and knowing you closely, and if they were serious, then they would ask for your hand because it is the only way of expressing genuine love!” They stared at me with pale faces. I shocked them by asking, “Would you believe me if I said, ‘I love you?’” They answered, “Yes, indeed.” I shouted, “Do not believe me if I say I love you without putting a ring on your finger!” They screamed with laughter! I carried on: “Make yourself worth something; do not sell yourself for free. Have a ring at least!” They continued to laugh uproariously.

I can say, from a guy’s perspective, we do not appreciate free things, even if it is valuable. We understand that, in order for a girl to prove her love, she would do absolutely anything that is acceptable with guys made from light or comes from heaven, but not with us.

Protect your pure heart from being exploited; protect your nature from deceivers. Remember the Baskin-Robbins girl and be a priceless girl: matter how much a guy would pay, the ring must come first! "

Has been quoted From the following source : http://www.abdullahalsaleh.com/blog.htm/